We're talking Positive Masculinity!
The Black Foxes sat down to have a live conversation on breaking the cycles of toxic masculinity, what the opposite end of that spectrum can look like, and what we can all do to get that end.
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A quick summary of the chat!
Intersectionality
It is important for us to take an intersectional approach to positive masculinity
Historical context
Masculinity is a patriarchal concept, exists as a form to control
Behaviors and language i.e
Creating space for others
Telling other men that they love each other
Vulnerability and practicing empathy
More positive representation of fatherhood online
Madame Satã - Brasilian movie recommendation (Marty)
Going to therapy
How we show positive masculinity
Jalen - backing off on hard things, saying I don’t know how to do something, and being a follower
Marty: being vulnerable, admitting when you are scared, seeking help;
Shequaya: stop saying pain is necessary; support and backing when sharing info
Alexa: stop telling people to do the most - racing, mountains & mountains, centuries etc.
How can cycling show more positive masculinity
Ask people before offering help
support more women and trans cycling
pay equity